YOU ARE NOT ALONE IF YOU FEEL LOST IN YOUR 20’S
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This Feeling can consume so much of your energy that you don’t even want to spend in the first place.
It Sucks really to feel hopeless in your 20’s, to feel Lost. Or feel broke in our 20’s
We often struggle our in 20’s to make ends meet and to truly work on ourself.
It is Hard, to make time for everything at this age. We do feel
How do we fight it?
Is it just me?
Will I ever get clarity?
What should I be doing in the next 5 years?
What are the ways I can earn consistently?
These burning questions would be haunting you every night from the age of 19 to 29.
What do we need to know? What is it that we are looking for?
Why did we take these decisions then, that we do not enjoy Now!
How do we get out of this self quarrel.
Here are a few tips and tricks you could use to help you with all the confusions you may be having right now.
Firstly, You must Be extremely Open-Minded and Ready to Unlearn and Relearn, to do that requires immense courage and simple mindset shift.
This is the tender age where we all really decide what we want our 60 or 70 years to look like. Hence, if we stick to a profession or a job thatbwe do not enjoy, we may be stuck in the RUT forever.
Imagine this, if you begin your side hustle right now, don’t you think you would flourish it and monetize it by the time you are 30?
It is okay to give up something you don’t like, and Not worry about all the time and resources you’ve put in it. Of course our parents have spent so much for us to learn and get a degree. But also it is completely okay if your intention is to grow better and make more money in what you love.
The degree that they helped you achieve was Only for Survival, they just wanted you to get through the rainy days and that degree did just that. It helped you survive, it helped you be a little free financially so you could even think of your passion in the first place. If confusion hits you still watch this
So leaving the Job with all the respect it deserves will be fruitful if you work with the same efforts and hardwork put into your own passion and be a Boss of your own. You need to Read this Before you Consider a Career change
Now having said that, I do not mean you directly Jump into the ocean without scuba geers. You need to learn all the skills required, maybe take up courses or two in whatever you are interested in. If it isn’t any different from what you do, you might require a little foundation before you monetize it.
Save some money, for the REAL Rainy Days that will come.
And get going without expectations. These will help u expect
Remember, Not everybody started off as an Expert.
Every Expert was once a silly beginner, who was as scared, as doubtful as you are now, He Just DID NOT GIVE UP!
That makes the difference.
DO NOT MISS OUT ON WHAT WILL BE IF YOU DONT GIVE UP.
As simple as that.
Things you must remember when you feel lost.
- You knew Different back then
- Priorities shift as you grow
- Decisions are widely based on what MATTERS to us.
- The fear usually helps us navigate through the difficult situations
- It’s the Age. Its Not YOU..
If you ever consider a change in career, you must read this Blog, 5 Effective ways to change career midlife
Also, a Post about How, Why, when you can Actually consider change career
CONCLUSION
So, Do Not beat yourself up for not knowing what your priorities are and what are the real important things in life.
So, can we recall when it first struck our minds that we had a tough life. When did this transition really happen?
In our Teens? In our 20’s?
I believe it was exactly when had our confrontation with Real life challenges, the Rent, The broken Friendship, The real faces of people, the experiences etc.
These are the lessons we had to learn the hard way to focus so much on the boring yet Important stuff that is making money and being independent. We understood in this stage that taking care of our own finance was the way to freedom.
There is where we left our passions behind.
Now that we got a little closer to financial stability, we Suddenly realised that, we are just being bored of what we thought of the final settlement. Now we crave for our Passions back.
I believe there’s nothing wrong in it..
Why should there be anything wrong in it.
Stay Positive, Live a Easy Life.
All the very Best. Do drop a comment or don’t hesitate to drop an email as well, I’m always here for you.
Here’s a Bonus Article for you, the Ultimate Truth about Quitting a stable 9-5
Thank you for reading friend.
Hope to see you around.
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